My Iranian friend told me that muta can be done without the permission of parents. Is that jaiz?
If the girl is baaligh and mature, but a virgin, and her wali-e-shari’i (shari’i guardian) i.e. father or grand father is alive, then according to the researcher Shia jurists, permission of the wali-e-shari’i is necessary.
However, a girl can get married without the permission of wali-e-shari’i:
- If she is not a virgin but a divorcee or a widow
- If she is a virgin, but her wali-e-shari’i is not alive
Is it ok for a girl to tell a boy that she likes him? If not, what should she do if she has already told him?
If the boy is that girl’s kufw (compatible to her) according to Islam and Shia Faith, then there seems no objection in expression of this fact as a result of which the two may get married. And Allah knows the Best and He is the Saviour!